Tuesday, June 24, 2014


Jim and Fran with their first child, Jimmy (1951).
Jimmy was my parents's first grandchild. 
My brother, Jim, and his wife, Fran, got married and had their first child, Jimmy, when I was ten or eleven years old. I was delighted to have a child in the family who I could watch. Eighteen months later, Karen was born. Fran had to be hospitalized after only three days. The children were left with my mother until Fran was better and able to care for them. I can remember running home from school so I would get there in time to feed the baby. She was the color of peaches and cream. Just beautiful. Anna and Billy’s daughter was born a few weeks before Karen, but I didn’t get to see her very often. Anna’s mother watched her while Anna was at work.  Billy was still in the service and stationed in Germany.

Dotsy and Lou weren’t married quite a year when they had their first baby, Johnny. On their first anniversary, Dotsy and Lou went away for the weekend. They left Johnny with me (and of course, with Mom too.) I remember taking Johnny to Sunday Mass and holding him in my arms as if he belonged to me.

As time went by, there were many babies. For some reason, I thought that they should all belong to me. Could that be why I had ten of my own?


© 2013, Patricia Aronica

Tuesday, June 17, 2014


Me, Mary (my cousin), and Freddy c. 1944.
I guess it is time to mention education. I started elementary school when I was four, and apparently I was not mature enough to leave my mother. On the second or third day of school, it rained. According to tradition at P.S. 137, the children were to line-up in the basement of the school. The basement was more like a cellar, and very scary place. At least, I thought so. I objected to lining-up as I was told. Push came to shove, and I kicked the teacher. My sister, Mary, was summoned to the scene. Very embarrassed, she took me home. Boy, did I get it from my mother for embarrassing Mary.

The following September, I started school again at P.S. 137, and I still didn’t do well. The result was that I was enrolled in St. Benedict’s school located at Fulton St. and Ralph Ave. The good sisters did their best, and I did graduate with a Regents diploma in 1959. Although I went to high school on a scholarship, I told Sr. Thomas Angela, I wanted to become a Nun. I said that I would have to enter the convent as a domestic since I was not smart enough to teach. She agreed with me. I never did become a Nun. I became a wife and mother instead.

© 2013, Patricia Aronica

Tuesday, June 10, 2014


Freddy on a hot summer's day on Chauncey St. c. 1948
Chauncey St. was designated a PAL street for the summer. The street was closed to traffic. Delivery trucks, fruit men, and junkies were all diverted. The city provided camp organizers, games, craft materials, permission to use the fire hydrants, and mostly anything needed to keep the neighborhood kids busy for the summer. We had use of pick-up-sticks, jacks, art supplies, playing cards, and a shower attached to the fire hydrant. We would be outside from early mornings ‘til the street lights turned on, unless, of course, our mothers called us in for meals. On especially hot nights, we were allowed to stay out ‘til 9:00, as long as we stayed on the stoop.

My sister, Mary, was interested in dress design, and somehow she acquired “modeling dolls.” They were similar to Barbie dolls, which we didn’t have then. When I was sick or alone, I got permission to play with these dolls. Using scraps of fabric, scarves, and ribbons, I could design all sorts of elaborate outfits for these dolls.

Patsy played Potsy
I’m sure everyone interested in games of this era has heard of stick ball, box ball, johnny on the pony, hop scotch, jump rope, street skating (with metal wheels), roller rink skating (with wooden wheels), hand ball, and on and on. We did not play hop scotch. Instead, we played a similar game called potsy. The boxes for potsy are arranged in a different configuration. To us, it was a very significant difference, like being a Dodger as opposed to being a Yankee fan.

Whenever a mother’s clothesline broke, we would rejoice. The old clothesline became a new jump rope for the kids in the neighborhood. Never mind the poor mother. Her wash lay in the dirty alleyway, and it would have to be washed again, on a wooden scrub board by very chapped hands. Jump rope was a big sport. I can still turn double-dutch, although I don’t think I could jump it anymore. 

© 2013, Patricia Aronia

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

REMEMBERING CHAUNCEY STREET 12.Swimming and Skating by Pat Aronica

I remember the blizzard of 1947, when the city was at a standstill. The mountains of snow piled along the sidewalks were this kid’s dream. I had a wooden sled. My brothers convinced me that it was far superior to the flexible flyers which the other kids had. I remember playing for hours on that sled. When our mittens got wet, we placed them on the radiators to dry. Meanwhile, we went outside with socks on our hands. This worked just fine.

Maybe once a year in the summer, we went to Coney Island. I remember my father taking us one time. Mostly my mother took us on those safaris to Coney Island. We were allowed one ride each on the Steeple Chase. Since I was too young or too afraid to go on it, or on the race horses, the cyclone, or on the slides, I got to go on the merry-go-round.

Dotsy c. 1949.
Mostly, we went to Cypress Hills’ swimming pool. We took the el train from Chauncey St. and Broadway Ave. After a couple of stops, we got off and were right by the pool. Most people didn’t know, or maybe they have forgotten, about the roller skating rink that was in the back of the pool. It was part of the same recreation facility. Once we got to the pool, if the weather looked like rain, we would opt to skate.

Swimming was my preference, but my sister, Dot, loved to skate. She was very good at skating. As time went by, she would take me skating every weekend, sometimes on both Saturday and Sunday.

Dotsy could dance on the skates and was determined to master every glide, turn, and move possible. How she put up with me, I’ll never know. I did learn a dance called the glide waltz. Once, Uncle Chuck was at the rink and was duly impressed with our performance. Of course, Dot just about carried me through the routine, so we would look good.

Lou c. 1954
After a while, Dot learned where other rinks in the area were located. We travelled to Hillside Rink and the Empire Rink. Dotsy acquired a pair of competition skates and continued perfecting routines. In time, she met the floor guard at the Empire Rink. And here, entered her future love and husband, Lou.

One summer late in the day, I got a chance to go to the pool with Billy, Anna, Mary, Joe, and maybe Freddy. I don’t remember who else went. I begged Billy to teach me how to dive. So, after a bit he told me how to curl my toes around the edge of the pool. While I was concentrating on these instructions, he took hold of my ankles, and dumped me into the pool, head first. Billy said: “Now you can dive.”

© 2013, Patricia Aronica

Tuesday, May 27, 2014


Our family c. 1945.
Our first record player was a wooden box affair, with a handle on the side. This handle was turned and turned, spinning the disk inside the box onto which a record was placed. In the box, on a pivot, there was an arm that held a playing needle. We swung the arm out and down until the needle touched the record, and then let go of the arm. The music began to play. Eventually, there were record players that used electricity to spin the records and move the arm. Years later, there were record players that held multiple records that automatically dropped down when the previous record was finished. Then came Hi Fidelity players. The sound was much improved, but they were based on the same principle as the original players. Then some genius came along and started recording music on tapes. For this to work, you had to have a tape player. Soon after that came portable, battery-operated tape players. Then came ear phones, etc. Now there are iPads and iPhones etc. But none of that existed when we lived on Chauncey St.

See and hear a hand cranked phonograph.

© 2013, Patricia Aronica

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

REMEMBERING CHAUNCEY STREET 10.Groceries and Cars by Pat Aronica

Billy c. 1947
Our grocery store was an old A&P located on the corner of Howard Ave. and Chauncey St. The owner was a Mr. Horan, and his helper was named Percy. (Thus, the name of my current dog.) Mr. Horan and Percy were both from Ireland, and Mr. Horan was married with a family. I don’t remember much about Percy. My mother shopped daily at the market and had a running account. She paid the bill weekly, when my father got paid. Charges were written in pencil by Mr. Horan on an old beer advertisement cardboard. Each week he manually added the amounts. No one ever questioned the accuracy of the tallies. We just assumed everything was correct. Once a week, on Saturdays, my mother would place a large order which my brother, Billy, would deliver to our apartment. Billy was the delivery boy for the store. He worked for tips and for a storage space for his current “hot rod.” Billy always had some sort of motor vehicle. I don’t remember if, or when, he got a driver’s license.  

Billy had a storage bin in our cellar. It was an old coal bin that measured about 6 feet by 8 feet. He had a locked on the door of the bin, and he had a skull and cross bones painted on the door. Contained in this bin were all kids of old car parts that Billy had accumulated over time. It must have taken him months before my parents moved to sort thru the contents. By that time, Billy had served in the army and was well married to Anna.

When Billy became a sheet metal apprentice, he offered to drive my father to work in some early 1920s touring car that he had acquired. It had no windows, and Billy drove too fast for my father’s comfort. My father told Billy in no uncertain terms to let him out. He would walk to work rather than taking his life in his hands with Billy. One time, we were all coming home from Bergen Beach in one of Billy’s famous cars. We looked like a band of gypsies, and it started to rain. Of course the car didn’t have a window defroster. We had to hold our breaths so the windows would clear up.

© 2013, Patricia Aronica

Tuesday, May 13, 2014


Sitting on our front porch, wearing my Easter corsage c. 1947.
(From left to right: Cousin Leila, me, Freddy, and Cousin Mary.)
Holidays were wonderful! Every Easter my father would get us girls a corsage and a box of Loft’s chocolates. There were always colored, hard cooked eggs, chocolates for the boys, and jelly beans of course. There was a bunch of daffodils, purchased on the way home from Mass, for my mother.

My father always managed to make a little overtime just before Easter, so somehow there might be a new pair of shoes, or even a new outfit. I especially remember a suit which my sister, Mary, made for me while she was in junior high school, P.S. 73. It was a hunter green gabardine with a pleated skirt and an Eisenhower style jacket. Another year she made a jacket out of grey flannel with a dark blue bow at the neck.

Me and our Christmas tree draped in tinsel c. 1952.
(This was a black and white photo which I hand-painted.)
Christmas was always magical. Our front room was the last room to get heat. That was where we put up the Christmas tree on every Christmas Eve. It was where I slept on the two chairs and later on the couch. My father would string the lights on the tree, and my brothers and sisters and I would decorate with ornaments and tinsel. Tinsel was a silver colored string approximately twelve inches long. We folded it over the branches of the tree. It would catch the colored glow of the lights and shine like icicles.

Gifts were placed unwrapped under the tree by my parents. Somehow, we knew which gift belonged to which child. I never thought that was a miracle in itself though.

The day after Christmas our tree was dismantled and thrown out, as my mother had such a fear of fires. Many a tenement was lost to a blazing tree fire. It happened every year, and Mom was not going to take any chances.

One Mother’s Day, my father gave my sisters, Mary and Dotsy, two dollars to get my mother some stockings. We had a John’s Bargain Store on Broadway Ave. They had a sale: six pairs of stockings for a dollar. Well, that year for Mother’s Day, Mom got six pairs of stockings and a box of smelly talcum powder.

© 2013, Pat Aronica